TW: Suicide/Suicidal ideation
A Child of June's Promise
On a sun-drenched Tuesday morning, June 16th—the Day of the African Child—I drew my first breath. Before I could speak my first word or take my first step, life had already written its first chapter of challenge: my parents had divorced while I was still growing in my mother's womb. Like many stories of strength, mine began in my grandmother's arms.
Under her gentle care, my early childhood blossomed in ways money could never buy. We might not have had wealth in our pockets, but my grandmother filled our home with riches of the soul. Through her wisdom, I learned life's most precious lessons: the value of true friendship, the power of love, and the freedom found in forgiveness. These golden threads would later become my lifeline through the darkest storms.
The Empty Chair
School days brought their own kind of pain. While other children shared stories of their fathers' adventures and teachings, I sat in silence, my thoughts echoing in the space where those stories should have been. But fate wasn't finished writing my story. Into this void stepped a man who would become my foster father—my hero, my champion. He gave me more than just his name; he gave me a future. Through him, I learned that education extends far beyond classroom walls, and that sometimes our greatest teachers arrive exactly when we need them most.
The First Cracks
After high school, life tested my resilience. A year at home, dreams of higher education suspended in the void of financial hardship, brought my first encounter with the darkness of depression. But like the sun breaking through storm clouds, an opportunity to attend college emerged. There, amidst textbooks and new beginnings, I found a friendship that would mark my heart forever.
When Shadows Deepen
February 2022 brought the kind of loss that reshaped my world. My grandmother—my first protector, my pillar of strength—left this world, taking with her a piece of my foundation. Her passing triggered a cascade of darkness that led me to the city, searching for purpose but finding only deeper shadows.
The city's bright lights couldn't illuminate my darkening mind. I bounced between friends' houses', each move destroyed my sense of self until I could no longer meet my own eyes in the mirror. Suicidal thoughts became unwelcome companions, and I found myself working in construction sites—my body present but my spirit lost in a tiny world of isolation.
A Second Loss
Just when I thought I'd touched bottom, 2023 dealt another cruel blow. My college friend—a light in my darkness—was taken by a tragic accident. Unable even to bid him farewell properly, I felt my heart crumble like autumn leaves.
The Turn Toward Light
Sometimes, rock bottom becomes the foundation on which we rebuild. After another attempt to end my pain, fate intervened through my father's unwavering love. A hospital visit revealed what I had been battling all along: Bipolar Disorder Type 2 (BD2). This diagnosis wasn't an ending—it was a beginning.
A New Chapter
Today, I'm walking a different path. My grandmother's dream of me becoming a teacher has become my north star. I'm pursuing a technical course to become a college tutor, but more than that, I want to become a beacon of hope. Every step forward is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.
To those fighting their own battles with mental health: your story isn't over. Like the African child born on that June morning, you carry within you the strength of generations. Your struggles don't define you—they refine you. And somewhere between the darkness and light, you'll find your own way to shine.
This isn't just my story of survival; it's a promise that hope persists, that healing is possible, and that our darkest chapters can lead to our most meaningful purpose. For every youth in Kenya, in Africa, and across the world grappling with mental health challenges: you are not alone. Your life has value, your story matters, and your future is worth fighting for.
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